5 Ways Mother's Day is a Reminder to Reach Out

Happy Mother's Day to all the moms out there, including--but not limited to--doggy moms!

Let's take this Mother's Day to remind ourselves--as teachers--why it's important to reach out to our students' parents/guardians:

1. Parents love hearing the positives: From personal experience, parents hate hearing about the bad things their students do in the classroom. Unfortunately, as part of classroom management, the second best resource in your arsenal is a call home. And as a teacher, I would rather have a parent who hates hearing the bad things because at least they care enough to not be indifferent. But, did you know that parents also love hearing about the good things their students do? 

• You can call when a student's behavior has significantly improved.
• You can call when a student is very polite and helpful.
• You can call when a student creates exceptional work.

2. Parents need to know you care: Taking the time to call home shows you care about your student. You recognize them as an individual and it shows that teaching is your passion, not just a job.

3. Parents need to be updated: We're all busy. Parents are no exception. Keep them updated on events happening at your school. You don't always have to call, you can also email. Be sure to obtain emails from both your parents and students so that you can create an email contact list. Communication can include:

• weekly news blasts via email
• updates on standardized tests dates
• reminders of school appointments
• special events happening at school

4. Communicating is CYA: Saying something to a student in person is a surefire way for it to promptly be ignored. So, reach out to students' parents/guardians and your important message will get across.

5. Communications are mini Parent-Teacher conferences: Every time you reach out to your parents/guardians, you also conduct mini Parent-Teacher conferences. You can keep your student on task to graduate with constant, structured communication with parents and students. 

If your students are over 18 or not living at home, then do tread lightly when reaching out to a parent or guardian. However, if parents/guardians have shown moderate interest in their students, then reaching out is always an option. Remember to use your best judgement. 

Other ways to reach out are:

1. Google Voice
2. Remind App
3. Newsletters sent via mail
4. Posts/short letters home to promote the positive behavior your students have displayed in class.

How else can you communicate with your students? Share in the comments below!